By continuing to do what you think he wants, you are actually damaging your relationship even further! To stop that distracting pattern you must stop doing those things immediately . Here is a typical situation describing what happens when a man who was very interested at first Suddenly Pulls Away Ask yourself , ARE YOU DOING THESE THINGS TOO? You start dating a guy and things are going great. You start spending a lot of time together and as the time goes by you can't help but start to notice that your feelings for him grow. And you think that he may even share your feelings. He seems very loving. Perhaps he drops hints about what you will or can do in the future. Next thing you know, he suddenly pulls away . He starts spending less and less time with you. He calls you less or completely stops initiating phone calls. He suddenly remembers that he has plans to spend a weekend doing something else, so that he can't see you. And after a while he stops calling you completely and doesn't answer your phone calls. And you are rehashing all the things you did or said trying to understand what's wrong with him! Or perhaps you start trying harder. Wh...