Ever have a secret part of your life? You know, maybe a part of your life you don't talk about much, or a time in your life that's very private to you? I have. When I was in college, I used to make money on the side by hypnotizing people. I'd put up little ads outside cafes, and people would call me. We'd sit down. My client would relax, take a deep breath, and we'd talk for awhile. My client would talk. I would listen. I would talk. my client would listen. When helping people with their problems-helping a photographer remember where she lost track of some images, for instance, or helping a musician relax before his audience-I learned some things. Rather, I connected more fully with something I'd sensed, but not fully opened to. I learned that men and women experience their lives and emotions in different ways-yet there are patterns to these differences. Hypnotizing men, and hypnotizing women, helping them both, has taught me how to unlock and release their fears. how to connect with their feelings. how to gently and firmly guide their actions. I've spent the past four years of my life teaching men how to understand these patterns, and how to create exciting and fulfilli...