She began telling me about how she d gotten engaged again, and about how she met her current fianc and how he won her over even though she wasn t attracted to him at first! She told me about a guy who began stalking her at work, and all the things he did wrong that really turned her off in the first place. She began telling me about how she had her first lesbian experience and actually hooked up with her best friend! Needless to say, I was captivated. Obviously, we had a great rapport going on, so she was comfortable enough to share all these details with me. I began asking her questions about certain things that lead up to these events, getting details and insights from her, and suddenly found myself understanding a lot about how women think about men, love, sex, and many other things guys usually take for granted. When I got off the phone with her, I felt like I had learned more about the way women think in a one hour phone call than I had with a year of going out to the clubs. That s When I Started Keeping My Secret Files After my talk with Jamie, I began recording some phone calls I had with women I d mee...