For many agonizing years, I was in the same position as you are (or probably worse). Since the beginning, I was controlled even by people who are supposed to understand me. My parents had always told me everything I should do (from what I should eat. to what course I should take in college). They had confused guidance with overprotection. That's ok if I'm still a kid, but I was already in my teens by then! When I went to school, I was often manipulated and cheated. My classmates would always borrow money from me. I just couldn't say No even if I know they'll never return the money. I'll do whatever they say, no matter how stupid it is, just to gain their acceptance. Sadly, I was used like a slave and was not treated as a friend. As I grew older, things got worse. I had a very tough time interacting with people and making friends. My extreme shyness and inability to communicate had built a huge wall in my social life. My relationships suffered tremendously, and I actually avoided any contact with people. It was very depressing. When I was hunting for a good job, ...